Bringing your Preschool Child to the Dentist

At what age should children see a dentist? We recommend bringing in your child for their first visit around their third birthday.

When your child visits the dentist for the first time, we will spend some time helping them get comfortable with the dentist. We will give them a fun tour around the office, and invite them to sit up in the chair for their first examination. Your child can sit in your lap, or sit in the chair on their own; whatever makes you both most comfortable and relaxed. 

Some things that we will do in your preschool age child’s first dental visit: 

  • We will count your child’s teeth
  • We will show your child how to brush
  • We will teach them how to take care of their teeth. 
  • We will assess their oral health
  • We can check for longer term issues or elevated risk of cavities, and ensure that they are developing normally. 

Tips for Preparing Your Young Child For Their First Dental Visit 

If possible, schedule your child’s first dentist appointment in the morning. We find that this helps them be more fresh and alert, and makes it easier for them to pay attention throughout their visit. 

Give them a general idea of what to expect before they arrive. Tell them why they are going to the dentist - They're going to make sure their teeth are healthy and strong, so their smile looks nice, so they don't have bad breath, and so they don't get sick!

Some adults have some dentist anxiety. Most children, on the other hand, are excited about visiting the dentist. encouraging your child's excitement will make their visit more enjoyable for them, and easier for you.  It’s important not to pass any anxiety that you may have about the dentist to your child. Chances are, they’re excited for their visit! If you’re feeling anxious and are not aware, you could be passing that dental anxiety on to your child, so it is important to remember to stay relaxed, as it will help your child do that same. 

How to Prepare For Your Child's First Dental Visit.

For your preschoolers first visit, let your dentist know about your child’s health history. It may be helpful for you to share their emotional state as well, like if they’re feeling especially stubborn, grumpy, or nervous around new people and environments. 


We know that older toddlers and younger preschoolers, around 3 years old, may have a difficult time being apart from a parent when having a dental procedure such as getting a cavity filled. This is because many children at that age are not yet socially developed enough to leave a parent for an extended period of time. Most 4 year old children are able to do their exam without their parent present, but you will know the needs of your child best, and are welcome to accompany them if you feel it would be helpful. 

Your Child's First (and Second) Visit to The Dentist

Your child’s first visit often last about 30-45 minutes. Their first visit usually includes an examination of their teeth, jaws, bite, gums, and oral tissue. We may also complete a gentle cleaning on of your child’s teeth to remove any plaque, tarter, or stains that may have began to form, as well as a light polish of their enamel. 

Your dentist will also help show your child how they can begin to care for their own teeth.

After their first visit, you should schedule regular follow ups every 6 months, just like for adults. 

What to do after your preschooler or young child visits the dentist: 

After your child visits the dentist for the first time, You can help them build long term healthy habits for caring for their teeth at home. 

  • If teeth are still only beginning to come in, gently wipe their gums with a clean damp cloth to remove any bacteria that may be building on their oral tissue. 
  • Start brushing their teeth. This should be done with a child sized toothbrush that has soft bristles. Use only a very small amount of toothpaste, about the size of a grain of rice.
  • If your child is still using a baby bottle, limit the amount of time that they have the bottle, and don’t provide a bottle to them during naptime. This helps prevent decay. 
  • Limit treats or other foods that encourage decay. Sugary snacks, juices, and sodas are the biggest culprits in this category.

Find a great dentist near you

It is important you find a dentist that you trust in your area to help get your young child started with dental care. If you are from the Fargo Moorhead Area, West Fargo, or South Fargo, consider booking your first appointment with us at South University Dental Associates. We would love to welcome you and your child to begin receiving care from our team of experts.